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Baldur's Gate 3 offers a rich tapestry of romance options, enhancing the game's narrative depth and player engagement. Whether you're looking for a long-term relationship or a fleeting encounter, the game caters to a variety of romantic preferences, adding some of the most memorable moments to your journey. In this guide, we'll walk you through each romance option in Baldur's Gate 3, ensuring you know how to foster these relationships without missing out on any potential partners.
All Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3
### Romance in BG3 Explained:
In Baldur's Gate 3, romance transcends gender, allowing every character to pursue any romancable companion, regardless of their own characteristics. The game offers both short-term and long-term romance options, with the approach varying based on the character and your goals. Some companions are open to casual encounters, while others require a more dedicated courtship. Be mindful, as certain actions can lock you out of multiple romance paths, especially if you're seen as too flirtatious with others.
Most of the companion NPCs can be romanced, each offering a unique experience that alters throughout the game. This means you'll need multiple playthroughs to explore all romance options fully. Below, we'll dive into the specifics of each potential partner.
All Romance Options:
The following companions can be romanced in Baldur's Gate 3:
- Shadowheart
- Gale
- Astarion
- Karlach
- Wyll
- Lae'zel
- Halsin
- Minthara
For short-term romance, you can engage with the following non-companion characters:
- Mizora
- Guardian/Emperor
- Drow Twins
- Haarlep
- Naoise Nallinto
How to Romance Shadowheart in Baldur's Gate 3
Shadowheart is often the first companion you'll meet and one of the easiest to romance due to her early interest. Whether you choose to pursue a relationship with her is up to you, but doing so can add a unique dimension to her storyline.
How to Romance Shadowheart:
- Keep Shadowheart in your party to increase your chances of building a strong connection.
- Boost her approval by showing kindness, avoiding violence, and respecting her privacy. Support her in conflicts, especially against Lae'zel.
- In Act I, look for the "...missed a chance to connect" dialogue or engage with her at the party after rescuing Halsin. When she offers to share a bottle, accept and choose to spend the evening with her. During the subsequent walk, avoid showing disinterest to end the night with a kiss.
- In Act II, you can maintain the romance whether you side with Selune or Shar. Support her choices and engage in the nighttime events that follow.
- In Act III, complete her quest, and participate in the final nighttime event, choosing the dialogue options that lead to a special scene.
Shadowheart Romance Special Notes:
- Shadowheart may end the relationship if you're too flirtatious with others, though the rules aren't always clear. In Honor Mode, it's best to remain loyal to her.
How to Romance Gale in Baldur's Gate 3
Gale, the wizard from Waterdeep, is another pivotal character whose romance can enrich the game's narrative.
How to Romance Gale:
- Rescue Gale from the portal northeast of the crash site.
- Fulfill his requests to consume magical items, which occur up to three times in Act I.
- Attend his magic lesson and choose romantic dialogue options. Avoid being mean to keep future options open.
- Support him during the Elminster cutscene before Act II, showing you care about his fate.
- In Act III, keep him alive and read "The Annals of Karsus" in Sorcerous Sundries. Before your next long rest, speak with Gale and choose the romantic dialogue options to unlock a special scene.
Gale Romance Special Notes:
- Gale prefers exclusivity and will be unhappy if you pursue other romances.
How to Romance Astarion in Baldur's Gate 3
Astarion's charm and wit make him a popular choice for romance, and he's quite open to various romantic arrangements.
How to Romance Astarion:
- Build approval by choosing self-serving options and adding him to your party early. He appreciates sarcasm and generally dislikes altruism.
- Allow him to drink your blood to boost your relationship.
- At the party, engage with him by choosing dialogue options that align with his interests, leading to the first major romance scene.
- Show interest in his scars and ask about the Infernal writing.
- In Act II, take Raphael's deal to learn more about his scars, and choose supportive dialogue options during his nighttime visit.
- In Act III, complete his quest, choosing whether to support his ritual or not, and engage in the final romantic scenes.
Astarion Romance Special Notes:
- Astarion is open to non-exclusive relationships and won't mind if you pursue others.
How to Romance Karlach in Baldur's Gate 3
Karlach's romance is one of the most challenging to initiate but deeply rewarding, especially given her unique storyline.
How to Romance Karlach:
- Support Karlach against the fake Paladins of Tyr and add her to your party early to build approval. She values kindness, understanding, and violence in the service of justice.
- Collect Infernal Iron and have Dammon at the Emerald Grove help her. Express disappointment about not being able to touch her, and confirm your interest when she asks.
- At the party, tell her how you feel, and later, suggest throwing water on her to cool her off for a kiss.
- In Act II, continue to provide Infernal Iron to Dammon at the Last Light Inn.
- In Act III, take her on a date to further your relationship.
Karlach Romance Special Notes:
- Karlach is very sensitive about infidelity. Apologize sincerely if she gets angry, and you might be able to reconcile. Once her heart is fixed, you can commit to a long-term relationship.
How to Romance Wyll in Baldur's Gate 3
Wyll's romance can enhance his complex storyline, making it a worthwhile pursuit.
How to Romance Wyll:
- Build approval by acting heroically, helping others, and supporting him in his quests. Show understanding in his struggles with Mizora and his father.
- Rescue Halsin and the Tieflings at the Emerald Grove, and if your approval is high, spend the night with him during the party.
- In Act II, participate in the romantic dance encounter during a Long Rest.
- In Act III, help him save his father and complete his task with Ansur to unlock the final romantic encounter.
How to Romance Lae'zel in Baldur's Gate 3
Lae'zel's interest in the player is evident early on, offering both short-term and long-term romance options.
How to Romance Lae'zel:
- Increase her approval by taking decisive action and showing strength. She values warriors who act swiftly and prefers fighting over diplomacy.
- Once her approval is high, mention her different gaze at camp, leading to a one-night stand.
- In Act II, she'll challenge you to a duel, which leads to further romance regardless of the outcome.
- In Act III, the romance's progression depends on her choice between Vlaakith and Orpheus, potentially leading to a couple's ending.
Lae'zel Romance Special Notes:
- Lae'zel demands exclusivity and will end the relationship if you're unfaithful after the duel.
How to Romance Halsin in Baldur's Gate 3
Halsin's romance is popular among fans, partly due to his connection with nature and his compelling personality.
How to Romance Halsin:
- Ensure you rescue him from the Goblin Camp and complete his quests before the end of Act II to avoid being locked out of romance.
- After helping him find Thaniel in Act II, he becomes available as a companion. Keep him in your party to build approval through kindness, respect for nature, and fairness.
- Regularly engage with his dialogue, focusing on topics like former lovers.
- When his approval is high enough, he'll visit you at night. Be prepared to discuss your other relationships, as some companions will be more accepting than others.
How to Romance Minthara in Baldur's Gate 3
Minthara's romance is unique, often tied to an evil playthrough, but it offers a different perspective on the game's narrative.
How to Romance Minthara:
- Betray the Emerald Grove by siding with Minthara at the Goblin Camp without engaging in combat.
- After defeating the grove, express honor in fighting beside her, embrace the change, and open your mind to her influence.
- At the subsequent goblin party, affirm your loyalty to her, leading to a nighttime encounter. Be prepared for potential combat if you fail a persuasion check.
Minthara Romance Special Notes:
- Choosing Minthara's path significantly alters the game's narrative, causing tension with other party members.
All One-Off Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3
### How to Romance Mizora:
- Keep Wyll in your party and avoid siding with Minthara.
- Rescue Mizora from the Mind Flayer Colony in Act II.
- In Act III, speak to her at Wyrm's Rock Fortress before Gortash's coronation, discussing Duke Ravengard.
- When she visits your camp, rest until you see an exclamation mark, then engage in the suggestive dialogue leading to a one-off romance scene.
How to Romance the Guardian:
- Choose to protect the Guardian/Emperor between Acts II and III.
- Evolve into Half-Ilithid to boost approval (optional but helpful).
- Visit the Emperor's old hideout to learn about his past lover.
- During the Emperor's subsequent visits, choose to hold their hand and respond positively to their advances, triggering the romance scene.
How to Romance the Drow Twins:
- Visit Sharess' Caress in Wyrm's Crossing during Act III.
- Speak to Mamzell Amira and either complete her quest or pay directly to access the Drow Twins.
- Follow the instructions to the chambers for the romantic encounter. Avoid involving Gale or Karlach if you're in a relationship with them.
How to Romance Haarlep in the House of Hope:
- Reach the House of Hope and cross the 'Mystic Force Curtain' to the Boudoir.
- Engage with Haarlep, the Incubus, who offers a romantic encounter. Be aware of potential consequences if you're in a relationship, especially with Karlach.
How to Romance Naoise Nallinto:
- Visit Sharess' Caress in Wyrm's Crossing.
- Find the locked door with the green lantern and ivy wall, either picking the lock or obtaining the key from Mamzell.
- Enter to find Naoise and Jara; after defeating the Mindflayer, engage with Naoise for a brief romantic encounter, granting the Rapture buff until your next long rest.
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